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Hope and Haiti - A Strong Marriage

January 17, 2010
St. Mark’s Episcopal Church
the Rev. George D. Smith

Isaiah 62: 1-5
1 Corinthians 12: 1-11
John 2: 1-11

Some weeks pack in events and emotions that are normally contained in an entire year. This past week was one of those weeks. Tuesday’s earthquake in Haiti began this emotional rollercoaster for me and millions of others. It was about 4 p.m. on Tuesday afternoon when I saw an e-mail from a parishioner alterting me to news of an earthquake in Haiti. Then there was another e-mail from our newsletter editor about receiving an e-mail from Haiti missioner and St. Mark’s parishioner Mallory Holding at 3:20 p.m., shortly before the earthquake. Shortly after that, the Internet was flooded with stories about an earthquake measuring 7.0 on the Richter scale which occurred near the center of Haiti’s capital – Port-Au-Prince.

As the hours passed, stories and pictures of destruction appeared on the Internet and TV news. With telephone and electricity shut down, Twitter and Facebook were the first places to offer glimpses of the situation. Then began a time of uncomfortable waiting and uncertainty. How bad was the situation in Haiti? How was Mallory Holding, who was working and living at the Episcopal Seminary of Haiti in the center of Port-Au-Prince? The second question would go unanswered through the night and into the next day. It was clear that the answer to the first question was that it was very bad indeed. As the scope of the disaster began to be known, and that the capital had been devastated, the desire to know the whereabouts and well-being of Mallory became increasingly intense.

Manya Brachaer who writes the Seeker column for the on-line edition of the Chicago Tribune covered the story of Mallory and St. Mark’s in her Wednesday blog. With media networking in full swing, I began to receive calls from reporters at NBC, ABC and WGN. NBC’s Alex Perez was the first to make it out to Glen Ellyn to talk to me. On camera, he asked me several questions, such as “What are you thinking when you see these pictures of suffering?” “How are you coping with the lack of word from Mallory?” “What is St. Mark’s doing in this crisis?” What I told him and other reporters was that the waiting and silence were very hard to deal with. We were keeping Mallory, her family and all of Haiti in our prayers, and getting any information we had out through e-mail, web sites and church networks. With nightfall approaching and still no word, each passing hour was more difficult. I told Manya, Alex and other reporters, that waiting is an essential part of faith. The definition of hope is not seeing any evidence of what you are praying for or wanting to know. In the void of evidence, hope is about remaining focused on prayer and God’s presence.

Fortunately, the waiting did not continue much longer. On Wednesday evening, Mallory was able to make a call on a cell phone to her mother in San Diego, and quickly word spread that she was uninjured, safe and camping out in a tent on a soccer field next to the seminary complex. That short but wonderful news was all there was before her connection was lost. It was a moment of Easter in a time of great suffering and despair, as the news continued to report that thousands of people had died and many more were injured in the earthquake and its aftershocks.

Mallory’s situation has made the tragedy in Haiti very personal – for me and St. Mark’s. Someone we know, love and care for was in the midst of terrible destruction. There are earthquakes every year, recently one in Java, Indonesia – also a 7.0 on the Richter scale. But this earthquake, being in Haiti, in our hemisphere, where Mallory was a missioner in a place of great poverty, made this tragedy very personal and real.

Over the past several days, we have seen the good and the bad of this tragedy unfold. For the good, there has been a rapid response from around the world. Technology has made it possible for people around the world to know about the situation. In a matter of hours, millions of dollars were donated through texting. The Red Cross has already received over $10 million by people texting the word “Haiti” to 90999 at $10 per text – that’s a million texts in three days! A map on the Red Cross web site shows that 5% of all texts have come from Illinois. Other good news is the example of Bill Clinton and George W. Bush, poltical opposites and rivals, working together to lend their names, connections and expertise to assist with the crisis. Outpouring of support from the international community is good news. Rescue teams from France and China arrived in Haiti 72 hours after the earthquake. These and other nations are pouring in shipments of emergency supplies and personnel to Haiti’s capital.

The bad news, ironically, has come from several Christian voices. Pat Robertson, on a segment of his show on the Christian Broadcasting Network, stated that the cause of the earthquake was part of Haiti’s long-standing pact with the devil made several hundred years ago. As outlandish as this sounds, millions of people listen and watch Pat Robertson. Even with quick condemnation of his remarks from other Christian leaders, damage has been done – and people’s minds influenced by a message that is simply wrong at best and diabolical at worst. Ratings for Pat Robertson have gone up. Apparently Rush Limbaugh didn’t want Pat Robertson getting all of the negative press, so he had to add his own two cents and spun the crisis in Haiti as a political gift to the Obama administration – providing the president points with the “light-skinned and dark-skinned blacks in this country.” Seriously and mean-spirited, he also said, “We’ve already donated to Haiti. It’s called the U.S. income tax.”

I felt fortunate to have today’s scripture readings in the back of my mind going into the events of the past week, both good and bad. They have provided a context and pathway during a time of crisis, suffering and frustration.

In the passage from Isaiah, God himself speaks to us in and through another crisis of epic proportions. The crisis is the destruction of Jerusalem some 2,500 years ago by the Babylonian Empire. The Temple had been destroyed, the people evacuated and a once vibrant society and ancient culture virtually wiped out. Religious leaders were shouting, “God has forsaken us.” And others, “There is no God – or this would not have happened.” Not unlike Haiti, Israel is called “Forsaken” and “Desolate” by her neighbors, enemies and own people. In spite of what religious experts and powerful enemies have to say, God promises a new name for his people and Jerusalem. They will be called “Married” and “My Delight Is in Her.” The new name signifies hope, beauty and one of profound relationship between God and Israel.

This selection from Isaiah combined with the Gospel reading from John, tell us to see in the midst of life, even in destruction, a wedding celebration and marriage. This wedding is nothing less than a recognition and celebration of God’s marriage to all of humanity. The water intended for purification that is changed into wine is the water of our faults, limits and sinfulness into a wine of blessing and goodness. Instead of water for washing away dirt and impurities, we have wine to drink, in a setting of dancing, laughter and happiness. Through the signs of Jesus, his life, death and resurrection, God is married not just to Zion but to all of humanity. That is why this is Jesus’ first miracle – at a wedding in Cana of Galilee.

Every Sunday, we remember and renew those wedding vows, in our prayers, the reading of the Scriptures and in the Eucharist. The wine is a key ingredient in a wedding celebration that continues to this day and always.

Many weddings, especially in recent times, are short-term commitments, with exit clauses and little attention to the hard work that marriage entails. A wedding with God, on other hand, means more than just short-term love – but a commitment that continues past the honeymoon and into all of the troubles, pain and joy of long-term relationship. Marriage with God is eternal – and brings promises of security, presence, forgiveness and above all, delight.

One of the lessons of the past week is to remember once again that God is in love with Haiti – is married to its people and its shattered land, deforested mountains and wrecked economy. There is no room for another lover, the devil or anyone else. In this marriage, God’s presence and power is undiminished, search as you may for signs of separation or divorce.

Today we are overjoyed that Mallory Holding is safe and here in person for us to see and to hug. We finally have both hope and evidence. She has been, is and will be a blessing to us and Haiti, and we continue to pray for her, her friends and colleagues in Haiti and for all of Haiti. I think Mallory is a special gift and call to St. Mark’s – that she will help us remain mindful and committed to Haiti once the crisis has dropped off the WGN, NBC and ABC radars. Yes, please support the emergency efforts to bring food, water and medical help to Haiti – and you can do so by texting the Red Cross, making a donation to Episcopal Relief and Development or any number of charities. Then in the coming weeks and months, let us be committed beyond the emergency – perhaps with Mallory’s guidance, to offer ourselves – in prayer, time, and relationship to Haiti. Perhaps we can help purchase school uniforms, support a micro-business, and adopt a school. May we remember that we are married.

God is in the midst of our troubles, waiting, tragedy and joy. We are partners with God, married for ever. May we renew our marriage covenant today, and do our best to keep our vows – to respect the dignity of all people, and in the days ahead help the people of Haiti with money and our prayers. We promise to stay with them, and not forget or turn our back as God does not nor ever will.

Amen.